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June 7, 2010

Deal With Your Toddler’s Tantrum Effectively

Filed under: General — Tags: , , — Jennifer @ 9:14 am

You may have visited a friend’s house recently only to find their toddler frantically running around the dining room set in a tantrum. At that very site, you probably thought to yourself that this would never be your child. Reality check: tantrums are a normal part of the growing process. It is a way that toddlers express their frustrations or stresses.

Tantrums are a release of a toddler’s frustrations of a stressful, or buildup of stressful, situations. Stressful in a toddler’s case can be: not getting the snack when they want it, or a broken toy or more attention given to a brother or sister by the main caretaker. Tantrums shouldn’t be taken personally, because they are usually an expression of frustration. The next time your toddler pulls the king quilt from your bed in a rage, try to put his/her actions in perspective.

Challenges are great ways to help your child grow. However, if a challenge becomes a frustration it can also turn into a tantrum. Try to be present when your child is tackling a challenging puzzle or game. Try to move things along with helpful hints when things are at a standstill. This will help prevent tough frustrations.

Prevent marathons circling round dining room sets by your toddler when throwing a tantrum by learning what actually triggers these fetes. Notice when he/she is most likely to throw one. Is it when they are tired? Is it when you are in the kitchen preoccupied, or when you are out on a long shopping trip? Notice a trend, if there is one.

When you know what causes a tantrum you can work to prevent it. For example, if you find that whenever you are in the grocery store for too long your child becomes tired and overwhelmed. As a result, a tantrum occurs. Plan for shorter trips, and keep healthy snacks on hand.

Keep track of what your toddler eats. Too often, sweets can heighten blood sugar levels and you will have to deal with mood swings as a result. Avoid caffeine in your child because this can have an affect that lasts for hours.

Make sure to give your toddler enough time to listen to what they have to say. If you listen to what your child has to say you are validating their emotions. Feeling ignored will only exasperate the problem. Put yourself in their tiny shoes. If you were trying to say something that was important to you and no one was listening, you would probably feel frustrated as well.

February 18, 2010

Baby Changing Bags- Get The Right Baby Bag

Filed under: General — Tags: , , , , , , , , , — Jennifer @ 5:27 am

If you plan on taking a baby out with you anywhere then you need to take a substantial amount of items and supplies with you too. A blanket, a toy, dummies, bottles, tissues, a change of clothes, spare nappies, wipes, and creams, being just some of the essentials that you need.

It goes without saying that you need a bag to carry these things; it would literally be impossible to cope without one. Fortunately, there are plenty of baby bags on the market to fulfill your needs, but they are not all equal, and some, frankly, are a waste of time. So, how do you choose the best one for your needs?

The bag should be fairly lightweight, since you will need to carry it around a lot, and all of a baby’s equipment will soon add pounds to it. A lightweight bag that is made out of a flimsy fabric is no good though, it needs to be tough, sturdy and well-constructed.

A bag that is both washable and waterproof is necessary, so look for ones made out of materials that meet those criteria. Washable because inevitably it will get dirty; there are just too many creams, bottles and dirty nappies around for it stay clean for long. Waterproof because you will get caught out in the rain at some point, and wet baby items and supplies are of no use to you until they have tried out again, and crying babies are not known for their patience!

For hygiene purposes, make sure there is a large enough pocket to store the dirty nappies in when you are out and about, so you can keep everything else clean. It really would be a nightmare to find that the change of clothes or the clean spare dummy has been dirtied too. And, having plenty of small side pockets will help you locate your baby’s things in a hurry, or even your mobile.

Once you have identified the basic necessities, you might want to consider some more sophisticated features, such as whether the bag has see-through linings to make it easier to find things in a rush, or whether there is an insulated bottle carrier.

Then, there is the overall design of the bag. Whether you opt for a rucksack, holdall, or satchel style bad is really down to personal preference, though you do need to bear in mind that some put extra pressure on certain points of your body, and some are easier to put on a push-chair than others.

Finally, there is price and style to consider. This may range from a few dollars secondhand, to as much as you are willing to pay. So far as style goes, keep in mind that you will have the same bag to take with you whatever the occasion, so, whilst a bright pink one may look cute in the store, you might feel a bit out of place with it in a nice restaurant. Going for a plain white or black one might be the way to go.

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January 28, 2010

Toddlers – the importance of drawing and coloring

Filed under: General — Tags: , , , , , , — Jennifer @ 4:39 pm

To the casual observer a child who is drawing or coloring in, is merely doodling. The marks seem to be decidedly random, almost meaningless. But there is much more happening in your young child’s mind as s/he engages in the physical act of drawing and coloring.

In fact, examining a child’s drawing gives us important insights into how drawing fits into the overall physical, emotional and cognitive development of the young child. From toddlerhood through to primary school, children choose to draw and color, but the process actually starts much earlier – during toddlerhood.

At around the age of a year and a half toddlers become interested in scribbling. It seems to provide sensory enjoyment, but the child is also interested in the marks that are made. The act of scribbling can serve several useful purposes for the young child. Small muscle coordination (fine motor skills) and control improve with practice, cognitive abilities are exercised, opportunities for social interaction arise, and the physical movements provide emotional release.

Because a toddler’s small muscle control is not fully developed, he or she may approach the coloring sheet by grasping the marker with his or her fist and may have difficulty placing the marks exactly where he or she wants them. Movements are typically large, involving the entire arm with very little finger or wrist control. This is because the pattern of physical development proceeds from the center of the trunk outward.

With practice, your child will naturally improve his or her control. Full control, however, will not be achieved until much later. A few toddlers rest the forearm on the drawing surface to give them additional control. A rhythmic, repetitive, scrubbing motion is common among two-year-olds, providing sensory enjoyment and making drawing a very physical act.

By providing children with the materials and opportunities to scribble we can promote physical skills. Just as babbling is a natural way to gain language, scribbling is the precursor to muscle control and coordination.

Form an intellectual point of view young toddlers care about both the process and results of their art. They really do not intend to represent objects at first. Instead, they are mainly concerned with color and line. However, they may look at the marks and scribbles they have made and, in surprise, recognize a shape and name it. While they may not have intended to draw a dog or tree, the scribbles suggest the shapes. Children interpret, rather than intend. In child development circles this is referred to as fortuitous realism and becomes common as a child approaches three years of age.

As a parent you can encourage your child to draw and color by offering him or her opportunities to do so. Provide them with blank sheets of paper to let their creativity run wild or supply a coloring book or coloring sheets – many of which are available free of charge online. Little boys may enjoy coloring images of  cars and trucks or of favorite characters such as Spiderman and at sites like Spiderman Coloring you’ll find free Spiderman coloring as well as coloring pages, funny pics and more. For little girls search for coloring pages of princesses or fairies or anything else she may be interested in such as Disney characters or even trucks!

Remember to always supervise toddlers while they draw and color – due to the choking hazard that crayons pose.

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