It is very common for toddlers and young children to experiment their feelings by throwing temper tantrums. Parents should be observant and alert in dealing with this problem by following several steps to settle down the tantrums.
Behave well in front of your child. It is important for parents to set an example of proper behaviour in front of their kids. Never act rudely or show your frustration to your child because at the age of 2 – 5, children learn by imitating their parents, therefore, they will behave aggressively if you do as well. Be calm and easygoing when handling your kid. Have a strong and firm approach when disciplining them but never intimidate them.
Always observe your child. Learn to observe the child’s behavior and instead of yelling when the child throws a tantrum, sit beside him or her and ask the reason for his/her behaviours. This helps communication with your child. Also, make sure your child has nutritious food and adequate sleep. Fatigue or hunger can be a reason for tantrums. Make sure the toddler has his or her afternoon naps in order for full resting period.
Have alternative for your child to choose. When the child does not get what he or she wants that’s when you see them flailing with their hands banging on the floor. However, when you present them with choices, they will have the opportunity to choose either one in making them feel happy with their own choice.
Spend time with your child. Usually kids are left alone to play or they are brought to play with other kids. At this time, they will either run around with all of their excessive energy or get bored easily and thus, become cranky. For example, have indoors games or read the child a story and maybe bring the child to a playground or set a play date. It improves both health and IQ. It can also help parents to bond with their kids.
Limitations and restrictions are important. Make sure your child understand instructions. When the child has been used to the instructions such as, “Go, wash your hands.” or “Clean up your toys before dinner.” then the child would be easier to manage. Teach them rules that they have to obey and hand out non-physical punishments like going to bed early or no ice cream or television if they do not obey the rule.
Find out more about discipline tips at this website about Toddler Tantrums.